Thursday, January 19, 2012

We share the hurt of our Charleston family!

With heavy hearts we visited with Pat's cousins and aunt in Charleston.  Aunt Lib is of course on every one's mind and we miss her greatly.   The interaction and reminiscing with the family helped lift all of our spirits.  Despite the circumstances surrounding our visit to Charleston, we truly enjoyed visiting with Pat's aunt and cousins.  They are all remarkable and resilient and despite the circumstances, our visits were happy occasions and the opportunity for camaraderie was not missed. 

David and his new wife, Lisa!  Congratulations!

David was Aunt Lib's youngest and lived beside his Dad and Mom for the last several years.  He loved and cherished his parents, thank God he has a wonderful wife to help him through this saddest period of his life.

The two oldest children, Mildred and Dorothy sorting through pictures of a lifetime.  The memories they shared with their mom will last a lifetime, thank God for pictures and their memories!


Gene can always make you laugh

Gene experienced life threatening heart problems last year and is recovering with the help of his wonderful wife and best friend, Mildred.  His wit, and down to earth common sense approach to life will help the entire family cope with the days ahead.

Aunt Marie and Pat share a hug!

Aunt Marie is struggling to understand the loss of her brother and sister in law within a three month period.  She has the support of her family not only for her loss but also from her debilitating stroke.


After the funeral, the family gathered together for a meal in Summerville, SC

The family relaxing after a very sad day in our lives

Sharon and Patrick (Gene and Mildred's daughter and son)
Sharon made a two song CD that was played at Lib's funeral -  a beautiful voice and very moving songs!

George and Evin - What is so funny?  It can't be good!

James and Christopher - Lib's son and grandson - It would appear that James could not let his hair down!!!!

Gene - those four plates were full of food at one time!

As the family gathered for a last meal together after the funeral, it was time to relax and enjoy the company of those who shared the saddness of losing a mother, grandmother, greatgrandmother, aunt, sister and friend.  Closure for those close to Aunt Lib was important for all and we believe that Aunt Lib would definitely approve.

If there is a lesson to be learned with the passing of a wonderful lady; it is that we do not know what the future holds for any of us.  Aunt Lib was the picture of health yet with no warning, God decided he needed her to walk with him.  We all have friends and family that we love, yet sometimes we do not take the time to let them know how we feel.  We think there is always time to share our feelings but this week we have again learned a very important lesson --- always take the time to let your friends and family know how you feel.
  
To all of our friends and family
We care for you and you are never far from our thoughts!  We hope you have a healthy and wonderful year!!!!!



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